Big Girl Thoughts | Real Women | Real Talk | Real Faith
Big Girl Thoughts is where real women bring real talk—full of laughs, tears, and faith that keeps us going. Hosted by Ashleigh, this podcast shares the messy, beautiful, and hilarious parts of life through honest conversations and stories that remind you you’re not alone and that God’s got a bigger plan in it all.
Episodes

Jun 22, 2026
Jun 22, 2026
42 min
Hey babe. Welcome back to Big Girl Thoughts.For episode #03, I sat down with my husband Shawn. You probably know him a little, the rebel in my posts. What you may not know is that he started drinking at 15 and went 13 years full tilt. By 28, working LA actor, one hand on a fifth of Jack Daniels and a Bible in the other, asking God to take it. Then he met me. Then he made one vow, "I won't lose you to liquid," and white-knuckled the first year of sobriety in Santa Monica AA rooms alongside Matt Perry and Anthony Hopkins. His sponsor was a diamond dealer who made my wedding ring. He's coming up on 24 years sober. If you have ever loved an addict, or are praying for one, this one is for you. Shawn came on to tell you it's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when. And to burn your boats.
WHAT WE GET INTO0:00 Meet Shawn.3:20 From Iowa to Hollywood.4:20 "I love acting more than you."12:37 Jack Daniels in one hand, Bible in the other.16:35 Then he met me.21:40 "I won't lose you to liquid."29:01 His AA sponsor made my wedding ring.36:00 Done to you, or done for you?37:28 Burn your boats.
ABOUT SHAWN:Shawn is my husband. Going on 24 years sober, he runs three companies and leads a men's freedom group at our church. Iowa kid who grew up without a dad in the home, chased the actor dream to LA, and found his way out of the bottle a few years later. If you know him, you know him. If you don't, you'd love him.
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Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-girl-thoughts-real-women-real-talk-real-faith/id1896816739
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xo, Ash
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Jun 15, 2026
Jun 15, 2026
53 min
Hey babe.
Welcome back to Big Girl Thoughts. For episode 02, I sat down with my friend Leah. She is a mighty prayer warrior, she serves at City Reach Church, and she has one of the biggest laughs you will ever hear. Don't let her tiny frame fool you. By 12 she had lost her innocence. By 14 she was on ecstasy every weekend. By her twenties she was on Vicodin, then meth, then homeless for two years. And then a door opened in a crack house in Oregon, and the man who answered it is now her husband. This one goes deep. If you have ever felt like you've gone too far, this episode is for you.
WHAT WE GET INTO
0:00 Meet Leah.
3:45 A family that loved Jesus, then asked to leave.
11:29 Twelve, looking for love.
27:25 When Vicodin came on the scene.
30:42 The conjoined twins.
35:43 The door Shane opened.
48:39 Sober in 2011.
55:14 "Are you done?"
58:04 Rapid fire with Leah.
ABOUT LEAH:
Leah is a mighty prayer warrior on staff at City Reach Church. Wife to Shane (the man who answered the door), mom to two boys, Braxton and Kingston. Sober since 2011.
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https://youtu.be/Ovl_F86PvOA
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May 26, 2026
May 26, 2026
52 min
At 17, two weeks before high school graduation, Treasa lost the woman who raised her and became the guardian of six siblings overnight. Today she leads ministry.
This is the first episode of Big Girl Thoughts, and Mama T pulls back the curtain on everything in between. In this episode, Ashleigh sits down with her best friend Treasa, AKA Mama T, for a conversation about brokenness and what it takes to turn a mess into a message. If you have ever felt unworthy, or like your story is too much, this one is for you.
WHAT WE COVER0:00 Intro: meet Mama T 2:14 "Baby, I'm back": why she said yes 5:13 From brokenness to belonging 10:01 The prom night that changed everything 18:57 The stranger in Greens Point Mall25:58 Did it happen to you, or for you?30:04 The friend who broke in38:38 Go to the throne before the phone46:01 The vineyard dream ABOUT TREASATreasa, known to the BGT family as Mama T, leads the Dream Team at her local church and has spent the last four years in vocational ministry. She's a grandmother to Ty, a champion of every woman she meets, and the kind of friend who calls you out and calls you up in the same breath.
Treasa's Instagram: @mcginnistreasa
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